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D\u00edt\u011b<div class=\"theme-link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.allambie.cz\/dite-radost-ale-starost\/\" class=\"theme-more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> \"D\u00edt\u011b, radost, ale starost\"<\/span> <svg class=\"svg-icon\" aria-hidden=\"true\" role=\"img\" focusable=\"false\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"20\" height=\"20\" viewBox=\"0 0 20 20\"><path fill=\"currentColor\" d=\"M16.172 9l-6.071-6.071 1.414-1.414 8.485 8.485-8.485 8.485-1.414-1.414 6.071-6.071h-16.172v-2z\" \/><\/svg><\/a><\/div>","datePublished":"2025-03-05","dateModified":"2023-04-29","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.allambie.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.allambie.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/f08fec9e5d161146672022190172bcb121f980bd7a64f251ea643f4b19d0f071?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/f08fec9e5d161146672022190172bcb121f980bd7a64f251ea643f4b19d0f071?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"allambie.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.allambie.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a330644_w2637_t1543144731.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.allambie.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a330644_w2637_t1543144731.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.allambie.cz\/dite-radost-ale-starost\/","about":["D\u011bti"],"wordCount":568,"articleBody":"Ide\u00e1ln\u00ed recept na v\u00fdchovu sice neexistuje, p\u0159esto jeden z\u00e1kladn\u00ed prvek by nem\u011bl chyb\u011bt v\u00a0\u017e\u00e1dn\u00e9 rodin\u011b. Je to l\u00e1ska. D\u00edt\u011b, by\u0165 sebemen\u0161\u00ed, c\u00edt\u00ed, jak je nebo nen\u00ed milov\u00e1no, zda je p\u0159ij\u00edm\u00e1no a zda je mu v\u011bnovan\u00e1 l\u00e1skypln\u00e1 p\u00e9\u010de, porozum\u011bn\u00ed. S\u00a0t\u011bmito atributy bude pro n\u011bj vstup do tohoto, \u0159ekn\u011bme si na rovinu, nelehk\u00e9ho \u017eivota, daleko jednodu\u0161\u0161\u00ed. D\u00edt\u011b c\u00edt\u00ed oporu, radost, a postupn\u011b nab\u00fdv\u00e1 sebev\u011bdom\u00ed, kter\u00e9 je v\u00a0tomto sv\u011bt\u011b pot\u0159eba.Princip v\u00fdchovy d\u011bt\u00ed se m\u011bn\u00ed, jak plyne \u010das a jak lidstvo p\u0159ich\u00e1z\u00ed na nov\u00e9 a nov\u00e9 poznatky ze zku\u0161enost\u00ed z\u00a0d\u0159\u00edv\u011bj\u0161\u00ed v\u00fdchovy. D\u0159\u00edve se razila cesta tvrd\u00e9 v\u00fdchovy, klidn\u011b i tvrd\u00e9 trest\u00e1n\u00ed d\u011bt\u00ed, \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e9 rozmazlov\u00e1n\u00ed, a d\u011bti \u0161ly do jesl\u00ed klidn\u011b u\u017e v\u00a0p\u016fl roce. Teprve pozd\u011bji se za\u010dala zd\u016fraz\u0148ovat d\u016fle\u017eitost vztahu matky a d\u00edt\u011bte, hlavn\u011b l\u00e1ska k\u00a0d\u00edt\u011bti, t\u011blesn\u00fd kontakt mezi matkou a d\u00edt\u011btem, zaji\u0161t\u011bn\u00ed klidn\u00e9ho a l\u00e1skypln\u00e9ho domova.Vznikal ov\u0161em i druh\u00fd extr\u00e9m, kult d\u00edt\u011bte, kter\u00e9 si mohlo dovolit, co chce, rodi\u010de v\u0161e benevolentn\u011b p\u0159ehl\u00ed\u017eeli, mantinely prakticky neexistovaly, hlavn\u011b a\u0165 m\u00e1 d\u00edt\u011b sebev\u011bdom\u00ed. Samoz\u0159ejm\u011b touto v\u00fdchovou bylo v\u00fdsledkem spousta mlad\u00fdch lid\u00ed bez \u00facty k\u00a0druh\u00fdm lidem, se sklonem ke\u00a0kriminalit\u011b a sklonem k mnoha neurotick\u00fdm poruch\u00e1m.V\u00a0posledn\u00ed dob\u011b doch\u00e1z\u00ed op\u011bt k\u00a0n\u00e1vratu k\u00a0respektov\u00e1n\u00ed autority rodi\u010d\u016f, z\u00e1rove\u0148 v\u011bt\u0161\u00ed zapojen\u00ed mu\u017esk\u00e9ho elementu do v\u00fdchovy a to u\u017e od narozen\u00ed d\u00edt\u011bte. Citov\u00e9 spojen\u00ed s\u00a0d\u00edt\u011btem z\u016fst\u00e1v\u00e1, i p\u0159ijet\u00ed p\u0159\u00edpadn\u00fdch odchylek jednotliv\u00fdch d\u011bt\u00ed, \u010dili respektov\u00e1n\u00ed jednotliv\u00e9 osobnosti d\u00edt\u011bte. Ale z\u00e1rove\u0148 jsou nastaveny hranice, mantinely, kdy po p\u0159ekro\u010den\u00ed t\u011bchto hranic by m\u011bla n\u00e1sledovat sankce. S\u00a0l\u00e1skou, ale spravedliv\u011b a d\u016fsledn\u011b. S\u00a0vysv\u011btlen\u00edm, pro\u010d k\u00a0sankci do\u0161lo.S\u00a0vysv\u011btlen\u00edm, nikoliv k\u00e1z\u00e1n\u00edm. D\u016fle\u017eit\u00e1 je interakce mezi d\u00edt\u011btem a rodi\u010dem, tak jako my vychov\u00e1v\u00e1me d\u00edt\u011b, d\u00edt\u011b naopak u\u010d\u00ed n\u00e1s, jak se k\u00a0jednotliv\u00fdm situac\u00edm stav\u011bt. \u017d\u00e1dn\u00fd moudr\u00fd z\u00a0nebe nespadl a v\u0161e se mus\u00edme nau\u010dit. Je d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 b\u00fdt pro d\u011bti vzorem, v\u0161e co d\u011bl\u00e1me, jak se chov\u00e1me (t\u0159eba mezi partnery, rodi\u010di) d\u00edt\u011b vn\u00edm\u00e1 a p\u0159ej\u00edm\u00e1 do sv\u00e9ho chov\u00e1n\u00ed.\u00a0 Zkr\u00e1tka nem\u016f\u017eeme k\u00e1zat vodu a sami p\u00edt v\u00edno.V\u00a0neposledn\u00ed \u0159ad\u011b je d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e1 shodn\u00e1 v\u00fdchova od obou rodi\u010d\u016f. Kdy\u017e jeden zak\u00e1\u017ee, nem\u011blo by doch\u00e1zet k\u00a0tomu, \u017ee druh\u00fd rodi\u010d povol\u00ed apod. D\u00edt\u011b si pak v\u017edy bude hledat cestu k\u00a0tomu, kdo mu to povol\u00ed. Jak ji\u017e bylo \u0159e\u010deno, striktn\u00ed pravidla na dobrou v\u00fdchovu d\u00edt\u011bte neexistuj\u00ed, ale l\u00e1ska, d\u016fv\u011bra, up\u0159\u00edmnost, spravedliv\u00e1 d\u016fslednost, to je r\u00e1mec cesty, kde bychom m\u011bli svou v\u00fdchovu v\u00e9st. Zbytek se mus\u00edme nau\u010dit \u017eivotem.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                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